Tuesday, August 3, 2010

We All Have Stories, We'll Never Tell


There is no love story like your own love story, no matter how many romance novels you read, or how many times you have cried during a movie.  They are all semi-relatable but never comparable to your own love, that's yet scandalous, complicated as it can gets. Well that's because we are all unique, there is not another clone of me out there, dating another clone of him, to be able to share and clash with the same love affairs.  Wether you're that sloppy happy girl who is always extra smiley and feels she has the perfect relationship with no flaws, or wether you are one of me, one who struggles with the same man year after year and yet, refuses to let this broken ship sink. Well... the truth is... we all have experienced the good, the bad, and the worst of times with someone we love. We all have already created our own version of what pain is, what pain feels like, even if your situation is completely different from others (which will always be), it leaves you alone, with no one to understand and share your misery with. But that's where we are wrong... People around us DO understand PAIN, they might not understand your situation in particular, but they defenitely understand the lonesome and almost deadly feeling of PAIN caused by another. So who are we to judge who's pain is greater? Is it Mine? is it yours? or is it hers? maybe even his?  Every situation is different but the pain is the same. There is no two sides to pain... it's just one straight, deep stab in your heart, that magically controls your body, mind and soul, leaving you a little on the nutty side. Lost in a dark tunnel without a light at the end, too lonesome to realize how many other people are in that same tunnel, but on a different path, yet also without a light in sight.  We all have stories, we will never tell, but it helps to confiend your feelings to a friend, a real friend who is willing to help you anyway they can or knows how, a friend who feels hurt to see you in pain....who doesn't ask questions, but understands, who doesn't talk, but listens, and who doesn't need explanations, but gives advices to help surpass your pain, because while your inside that dark tunnel of pain, she is on the outside hurting for you to find your way out.

Love is Pain and Pain is Love

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