More Than Friends

"He will always be able to play the "friend" card on you. He only has to be responsible for the expectations of a friend, rather than the fargreater expectations of a boyfriend. He's got the ultimate situation: a great friend with all the benefits of a girlfriend, whom he can see or not see whenever he wants to. He may be one of your closest friends, but I'm sorry to say ... as a boyfriend, he's just not that into you."
-He's Just Not That Into You (The Movie)

I Don't Want To. . .

I don't want to be "sort of dating" someone. I don't want to be "kinda hanging out" with someone. I don't want to spend a lot of energy suppressing my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know I'll see again because they've already demonstrated to me that they're..

 Trustworthy

Honorable

&

Into me!

Cut Your Losses and Don't Waste Your Time

"Cut your losses and don't waste your time .

Why stay in some weird dating limbo when you can move on to what will surely be better territory? Don't want to hear it? Fine. Here's the answer you're looking for, "Hang in there, baby. He's not the loser everybody's telling you he is.

 If you wait and keep your mouth shut and call at exactly the right time and anticipate his moods and have no expectations about communication or your own sexual needs, you can have him!"

But please don't be surprised if he dumps you or continues to drag you through a completely unsatisfying relationship."

-He's Just Not That Into You (The Movie)